What do you mean?
I can say whatever I want to an attractive lady. Obviously, it is up to the lady. (It is her choice.) I cannot force the issue. Let it be.
Many examples shown below:
What are you trying to say?
I am single. I cannot always get any lady I want. Patience is the key.
Great news: I have kept in contact with lady from Memphis via FaceTime-ing and text messaging. (I met her in Vegas.) Right after the Golden State Warriors won a ring, she told me that she got accepted to med school in California. She told me, "She's so excited. Plus, I will be closer to you." (Yes, I was excited as well.)
What happens between you and her now?
It goes with my present-self quote, "The past is remembered. Live in the present. The future is in you." (From my previous blog posts, I have mentioned this quote a few times.)
She asked me, "Is this a good idea?" (Asking me if she should study and live in California.)
I answered, "That's a great question. I cannot answer that. Remember, follow your instincts. The future is in you."
(Yes, I would want her to come here in California. It is her decision. I do not want to force her.)
Again, respect the lady.
What now, then? Smile, and enjoy nature (my type of happiness). Appreciate life. Keep exploring while I still can. (Picture shown below.)