128) My First Dates

I am not really successful in going for the first kiss on my first date with lady. I struggle at it.

Then again, it is in my head.

One of my good friends recently told me something like, “Connect is great, but there has to be a balance. Connect emotionally, and especially, physically.”

I agree with what he said.

Currently, I have no problem in connecting with a lady emotionally.

I have asked many people, “Should I always go for the first kiss on first date?”

Their answers varied.

Here is the list:

-Always go for the first kiss. First kiss determines if she likes you or not. It saves your time.
-Take it slow. No rush for the first kiss. Build the relationship, and the kiss will eventually happen.
​-It really depends. You will just know.
-Go with your strengths. If you are good at talking, tell her, “I really like to kiss you.” If you see her okay with it, go for the kiss.
-Whenever the lady tells you that she is enjoying her date with you, go for the kiss.
-If you never ever go for the first kiss, you might end up as her friend.
-One of my good friends told me, “You have balls and guts to approach any pretty lady. You should be able to go for first kiss on any first date.”

I am always curious for listening to everybody’s feedback.

​Mathematics always has an answer to a problem. In life, there is really no answer to your problem. Follow your instincts.

Good luck on my next date.