We just don’t know.
So far, I have experienced a lot from it in traveling. I met a lot of people in China and in the Philippines. I have built meaningful relationships.
It is impossible to remain in contact with everybody. Also, it is impossible to please everybody. (I cannot greet a happy birthday to each of my Facebook friends.)
Things can change. Things do not normally go according to plan. This ain't a movie. Expectation is what we want, but this is reality.
For instance, I met a girl in Shanghai. We went on a few dates. I believe we had a spark. Now, we only contact each other here and there. It is understanding. We live far away from each other. Also, she is 15 hours ahead of me.
Also, I went on a few dates with a girl in the Philippines.
Imagine if I visited one of them again. Things can change. Who knows? I cannot read the future.
It goes with the saying, "Live in the moment." That moment with her. That was a spark.
People grow apart from each other. I cannot control the outcome.
No real answer in life. Things will just happen.